Settings

Appearance, account details, safety tools, and sign out.

Appearance

Theme applies across Marriage View (stored on this device).

Privacy at a glance

Profile & Discover: Your card shows name, age, city, photos, and bio to people you may match with. Update anytime under Profile.
Messages: Chat is only available with mutual matches.
Alerts: This device vs account preferences are split between Alerts and Reflections & gentle nudges.

Data export & account deletion

Self-serve export and full account deletion are not available in-app in this build. For requests, use your host's support channel or administrator.

Dating coach

Ask for help with pacing, boundaries, and conversation — powered by AI when the server has an API key configured.

Open coach

Plan

Current tier: free

Premium entitlements are managed by admins for now. Higher tiers may raise discover interaction limits.

Trust & verification

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I agree to upload only photos that meet the community guidelines (authentic, respectful imagery).

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Profile strength

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How you appear on Discover

Others see the same photos, name, age, city, and bio as on your public card. Refine details anytime.

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Profile photos

Add up to six photos. They appear on Discover and in matches — same upload rules as onboarding.

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Alerts

New accounts default to alerts on. The toggles below apply on this browser only. Weekly digest and reflection nudges (saved to your account) are in Reflections & gentle nudges. Web Push needs VAPID keys on the server.

In-app sounds (calls & message ping)Desktop banners when the tab is in the background (requires permission)Allow Web Push registration after sign-in (when configured)

Phone number (SMS / WhatsApp alerts)

On iPhone — and on any device where browser notifications don't reliably ring — we'll SMS or WhatsApp you when a match starts a video date. Adding your number is optional but strongly recommended. Pick your preferred channel below after verifying.

Mobile number

Reflections & gentle nudges

Private notes after video dates stay only on your account. In-app nudges respect caps; you can turn categories off anytime.

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Legal

Your user id

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Report someone

Paste the other person's user id (UUID). In production, this would usually be prefilled from their profile or chat.

Why we ask · what happens next

Reports help us spot harassment, scams, and policy violations. We review tickets as we can; you may not get a personal reply. For emergencies, contact local authorities.

Blocked users

About blocking

Unblocking restores the possibility of seeing each other in the app again; it does not restore past chats automatically.

No blocked accounts.

Admin panel